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When OCD and PTSD Collide: Understanding the Overlap and How to Heal

Mar 21

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Introduction

Living with OCD or PTSD is hard enough on its own — but when they show up together, things can get really messy, really fast. You might find yourself caught in a loop of intrusive thoughts, constant anxiety, and exhausting efforts to feel "safe" or "certain" again. Maybe you’re wondering: Is this my trauma showing up… or is it my OCD? Why do I feel so guilty all the time?

The truth is, OCD and PTSD overlap more often than people realize, especially if you’re someone who tends to carry a lot of guilt or responsibility. Trauma can shape the way OCD shows up, and OCD can make the impact of trauma feel even heavier. The two start feeding off each other — leaving you stuck, second-guessing everything, and wondering how you’ll ever break free.

The good news? Healing from both PTSD and OCD is absolutely possible. In this post, we’ll walk through why these two conditions are so connected, how they keep you stuck, and what actually helps when you’re living with both.


What Are OCD and PTSD, Really?

Before we dive into how these two tangle together, let’s get clear on what OCD and PTSD actually are — because the terms get thrown around a lot, and it’s easy to feel confused.

Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is way more than being super clean or organized (even though that’s the stereotype). At its core, OCD is about getting stuck in a loop of intrusive thoughts — the kind that feel disturbing, scary, or just plain “wrong” — and doing things (compulsions) to try to make the anxiety go away. For example, someone might have a sudden, unwanted thought like “What if I hurt someone?” and then mentally replay every interaction, confess to others, or avoid situations just to feel “safe.”

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) is what happens when your brain and body stay stuck in survival mode after something overwhelming or traumatic happens. You might have flashbacks, nightmares, or that constant sense that something bad is about to happen. And naturally, you start avoiding anything that reminds you of what you went through — not because you want to, but because your brain is trying to protect you.

One thing both OCD and PTSD have in common? Guilt and shame often play a huge role. You start questioning yourself: Was it my fault? Am I a bad person? Why can’t I just stop thinking about this? These feelings don’t just make you miserable — they also keep you stuck.


How OCD and PTSD Overlap

So what happens when OCD and PTSD collide? Honestly, it can feel like your brain is working overtime — constantly spinning between fear, guilt, and a need to somehow make it all stop. And the tricky part? The two disorders can start looking and feeling really similar, which makes it hard to know what’s what.

Here’s where things get tangled:

  • Intrusive thoughts vs. flashbacks: Both PTSD and OCD can come with scary, unwanted thoughts or images. If you’ve got trauma, those might be flashbacks — moments where it feels like the past is happening all over again. But if it’s OCD, those intrusive thoughts often sound like “What if I’m dangerous? What if something terrible happens because of me?” They’re not actual memories, but they sure feel just as intense.

  • Compulsions as avoidance: People with PTSD naturally avoid reminders of the trauma — it’s the brain trying to stay safe. But with OCD, compulsions work the same way: you might avoid people, situations, or even certain thoughts just to get rid of anxiety. Over time, that avoidance keeps both disorders going.

  • Trauma shaping OCD themes: If you’ve lived through trauma, it’s common for your OCD to latch onto those experiences. For example, someone who was abused might develop obsessions around becoming abusive themselves, even though they’d never want to hurt anyone. It’s like the OCD brain picks the worst possible fear — and runs with it.

  • Hypervigilance vs. obsessive monitoring: PTSD often makes people hyper-aware of danger, scanning for threats. OCD can do something similar, but it shows up as mental checking — constantly replaying things, seeking reassurance, or scanning your own thoughts for “proof” you’re a good person. Both feel exhausting, but they come from slightly different places.

And then there’s the guilt — that heavy, relentless feeling that somehow you’re responsible for what happened, or for what could happen next. Trauma and OCD both love to weaponize guilt, making you feel like you have to constantly prove you’re not bad, dangerous, or broken.


Why Trauma Makes OCD Worse (and Vice Versa)

If you’re stuck wondering why this combo feels so intense, you’re not imagining it — trauma and OCD really do fuel each other. It’s like they create this endless loop that’s hard to break out of without help.

Here’s how that cycle tends to work:

  • Trauma ramps up your brain’s threat system. After trauma, your brain is constantly scanning for danger — not just outside of you, but inside your own mind too. OCD latches onto that hyper-awareness and starts throwing out intrusive thoughts like “What if you hurt someone?” or “What if you’re secretly a bad person?” Your brain treats those thoughts like actual threats, which just adds more fuel to the anxiety fire.

  • OCD runs wild with trauma themes. Trauma often shapes what your OCD obsesses over. If you’ve been betrayed, abandoned, or harmed, your OCD might start fixating on preventing that from ever happening again — even if the compulsions don’t really make sense. You might find yourself stuck in constant checking, confessing, or replaying memories just to feel “sure” it won’t repeat.

  • The vicious guilt loop. Trauma often leaves people feeling like it was their fault or like they should’ve done something differently. OCD takes that guilt and turns it into obsessions — pushing you to review every detail, seek reassurance, or avoid anything that makes you feel like a “bad” person. It’s exhausting… and it keeps both the PTSD and the OCD symptoms alive.

  • Avoidance becomes the common thread. Whether it’s avoiding trauma reminders or trying to avoid intrusive thoughts, both disorders pull you into behaviors that feel safe right now but actually make things worse long term. The more you avoid, the scarier everything feels — and the cycle keeps spinning.

The bottom line? It’s not that you’re weak or broken. Your brain is doing exactly what it thinks it needs to do to protect you — it just doesn’t realize it’s keeping you stuck in the process.


OCD and PTSD requires facing your fears

Treatment Considerations for OCD and PTSD Together

Here’s the tricky part about OCD and PTSD showing up together — if treatment only focuses on one and ignores the other, you can end up feeling stuck or even worse. It’s like playing whack-a-mole: you get some relief in one area, and suddenly another symptom pops up.

That’s why it’s so important to work with a therapist who understands both and knows how they tangle together. Here’s what good treatment often looks like when you’re dealing with this combo:

  • Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) — but trauma-informed.ERP is the gold-standard treatment for OCD, where you practice facing your fears without doing the compulsions. But when there’s trauma in the mix, it has to be done carefully. You don’t want exposures that accidentally retraumatize you or reinforce old wounds. A trauma-informed approach means your therapist helps you lean into the anxiety in a way that feels challenging — but still safe and respectful of what you’ve been through.

  • Knowing when to start with PTSD work, OCD work — or both.Sometimes the trauma is so raw that jumping straight into ERP isn’t helpful. Other times, the OCD is running the show so loudly that trauma work has to wait. A good therapist helps you figure out where to start, based on what’s driving the most distress right now. It’s not one-size-fits-all.

  • Incorporating trauma-specific treatments like EMDR or IFS.For some people, healing the trauma directly can loosen the grip OCD has on them. Therapies like EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) or IFS (Internal Family Systems) can help process stuck trauma memories, reduce emotional reactivity, and shift the guilt or shame that OCD loves to latch onto. When integrated carefully, these approaches can work alongside ERP to target both layers of the struggle.

  • Targeting guilt and shame head-on.Since both PTSD and OCD feed on guilt, part of healing means learning how to spot it when it shows up — and not fall for its tricks. A lot of people feel like they need to feel guilty to be a good person. But the truth is, guilt in these cycles isn’t helpful — it’s just keeping you stuck.

  • Avoiding common therapy mistakes.A therapist unfamiliar with OCD might accidentally give reassurance, which feels good for a second but keeps OCD going. On the flip side, jumping into trauma exposure without understanding OCD might ramp up compulsions. Integrated treatment means walking that line carefully — facing fears without feeding the loop.

At the end of the day, healing happens when you learn how to break the cycle — not by avoiding the scary stuff, but by facing it in the right way, with support.


Healing from Both PTSD and OCD

If you’ve been stuck in the overlap of OCD and PTSD, it might feel like this is just how your brain works — anxious, guilty, and always waiting for the next bad thing to happen. But the truth is, healing is possible. It’s not about erasing the past or getting rid of every intrusive thought — it’s about changing your relationship to those thoughts, memories, and feelings so they stop running the show.

Here’s what healing often looks like:

Facing fears — not avoiding them.With the right support, you’ll start learning how to sit with the discomfort instead of scrambling to make it go away. Whether it’s an intrusive thought or a trauma memory, the goal isn’t to “fix” it — it’s to show your brain you’re safe, even when it feels scary.

Letting go of the guilt loop.Healing means loosening the grip guilt and shame have on you. You’ll learn to recognize when guilt is earned versus when it’s just part of OCD or trauma trying to trick you into feeling responsible for things that aren’t your fault.

Building self-compassion.If you’ve lived in survival mode, you’ve probably been hard on yourself for a long time. Part of recovery is learning how to meet those moments with kindness — not because everything you fear is true, but because you deserve care even when you’re struggling.

Creating a life beyond OCD and PTSD.Treatment isn’t just about symptom reduction — it’s about getting back to the things that make life feel meaningful. Relationships, hobbies, goals — the stuff that OCD and trauma tend to steal from you. Healing means creating space for those things again.

The journey out of this cycle takes work — but it’s absolutely doable with the right tools and support. You don’t have to keep living in fear or feeling like your past defines you. Both OCD and PTSD are treatable, and with time, you can find your way back to solid ground.


Conclusion

Healing from both PTSD and OCD isn’t just a dream — it’s possible, and you don’t have to do it alone. It’s natural to feel overwhelmed, but the good news is that with the right support and treatment, you can start breaking free from the cycle of guilt, fear, and intrusive thoughts. You deserve to live a life where these struggles don’t control you.

If you’re ready to take the first step toward healing, we’re here for you. Text us at 801-477-0813 to schedule your free consultation and start your journey toward lasting change. We’re committed to helping you find the relief and peace you deserve.

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